{"id":262,"date":"2026-06-08T02:29:14","date_gmt":"2026-06-08T06:29:14","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"2026-06-26T18:21:30","modified_gmt":"2026-06-26T18:21:30","slug":"appreciative-attention-3daa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aboutyou.name\/?p=262","title":{"rendered":"Appreciative Attention"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffd700;\"><span style=\"6px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><strong>(3DAA)&#8217;s Main objective:<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"color: #ffd700;\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><span style=\"6px;\">To acquire the Art of improving the mental &amp; emotional state of everybody, via a particular way of observing. <\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #ffd700;\"><span style=\"6px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">Gratitude = Happiness + Goodness<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><span style=\"6px;\">Appreciation is more than just gratitude. It is an act of proactively valuing some-thing or some-one. It transforms gratitude from an after-the-fact expression of feeling, to a before-the-fact deliberate engagement of energy. This is the energy of appreciation, a <a href=\"?p=292\"><span style=\"color: #ffd700;\">heart<\/span><\/a> force heavily under-utilized! <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Appreciation is an <a href=\"?p=199\"><span style=\"color: #ffd700;\">Attention-beam<\/span><\/a> of <a href=\"?p=817\"><span style=\"color: #ffd700;\">bio-photons<\/span><\/a>, improved by a special quality of feeling. It helps dissolve the emotional glue (pain, fear, anger) from a trauma. It also stimulates the production of the mood enhancing hormone <a href=\"?p=792\"><span style=\"color: #ffd700;\">DHEA<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Appreciative Attention can be seen as\u00a0a non-judgmental awareness of whatever arises, a lightness of humor that enables you to defuse uncomfortable situations without disrespecting those involved.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"6px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">You can lighten the seriousness of someone through the understanding that what they communicate is important,\u00a0 has value, and as such, it is appreciated. However, appreciation &amp; importance are separate from Seriousness.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"6px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">Seriousness carries unconscious emotions like fear, anger, and frustration. It is like glue that fixes attention. This may often result in an ongoing flow of thoughts or feelings. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"6px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">Appreciation plus Soft Focus Attention dissolves this glue and stops the inexorable stream of thoughts for a moment.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"6px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">The state of appreciation is a state of unconditional <a href=\"?p=973\"><span style=\"color: #ffd700;\">love<\/span><\/a>, irrespective of who you are, an exact vibrational match to the vibration of source energy, the highest energy frequency available.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/userfiles\/image\/2013%20pics\/Appreciation.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"248\" height=\"157\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffd700;\"><strong><span style=\"2px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">What&#8217;s better for your heart?<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"6px;\"><span style=\"color: #ffd700;\"><strong><span style=\"2px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><a href=\"?p=263\"><span style=\"color: #ffd700;\">read more &#8230;<\/span><\/a><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(3DAA)&#8217;s Main objective: To acquire the Art of improving the mental &amp; emotional state of everybody, via a particular way of observing. Gratitude = Happiness + Goodness Appreciation is more than just gratitude. It is an act of proactively valuing some-thing or some-one. 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