{"id":312,"date":"2026-06-08T02:29:14","date_gmt":"2026-06-08T06:29:14","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"2026-06-17T13:46:47","modified_gmt":"2026-06-17T13:46:47","slug":"forgiveness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aboutyou.name\/?p=312","title":{"rendered":"Forgiveness"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffd700;\"><strong><span style=\"6px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">&#8220;The weak can never forgive.<br \/>\nForgiveness is the attribute of the strong.&#8221;<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffd700;\"><strong><span style=\"6px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">&#8220;But, can the strong allow the others<br \/>\nto forget that he\/she forgave them?&#8221;<br \/>\n(Mahatma Gandhi)<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"6px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">Forgiveness is a decision to release feelings of resentment &amp; revenge. The offensive act may always remain a part of your life, but forgiveness can lessen its grip on you.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"6px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">Forgiveness doesn&#8217;t minimize or justify the wrong. You can forgive someone without excusing the act. Forgiveness brings a kind of peace that helps you go on with life. By embracing forgiveness, you embrace peace and joy.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"6px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">It is important to recognize that your current distress is coming from the hurt feelings, thoughts and physical upset you are suffering NOW, not what offended you 5 minutes or 5 years ago. Research has shown that people who are unjustly hurt by others can heal emotionally and, in some cases, physically by forgiving their offender.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"6px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">You can never live in the present and create a new and exciting future if you always stay stuck in the past.<\/span><\/span><span style=\"6px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"> Forgiveness can even lead to feelings of understanding, empathy and compassion for the one who hurt you.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"6px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/userfiles\/image\/Reconciliation_web.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"214\" height=\"200\" \/><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"color: #ffd700;\"><span style=\"6px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">After Jesus the Christ forgave <a href=\"?p=760\"><span style=\"color: #ffd700;\">St. Peter<\/span><\/a> for denying thrice his relationship with the man Jesus, Peter realized that Forgiveness has to be the cornerstone upon which he had to build the Christian Church.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><a href=\"?p=313\"><span style=\"color: #ffd700;\"><strong><span style=\"2px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">read more &#8230;<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.&#8221; &#8220;But, can the strong allow the others to forget that he\/she forgave them?&#8221; (Mahatma Gandhi) Forgiveness is a decision to release feelings of resentment &amp; revenge. 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