{"id":689,"date":"2026-06-08T02:29:14","date_gmt":"2026-06-08T06:29:14","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"2026-08-02T18:59:49","modified_gmt":"2026-08-02T18:59:49","slug":"oscillating-out-in","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aboutyou.name\/?p=689","title":{"rendered":"Oscillating OUT >< IN"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffd700;\"><strong><span style=\"6px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">Oscillating between<br \/>\nexpansion and contraction<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"6px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">Oscillating between the extreme polarities of &#8216;desire and resist&#8217; generates the rhythm essential for the transformation of trauma. In surrendering to our own needs to feel safe we apparently need to go to the threshold of death\u2019s door. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"6px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">Organisms have evolved wave-like processes to cure the effects of trauma: the &#8216;feeling&#8217; process of expansion (desire) and contraction (resist). When these polarities are integrated in a gradual fashion, then the trauma will be safely healed. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"6px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"\/userfiles\/image\/4-2011-pics\/standing_wave.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"205\" height=\"147\" \/><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"6px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">Some people seem to have a vested interest in being ill, as they have formed some kind of attachment to its symptoms. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"6px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">It is almost as if these symptoms become entities unto themselves through the power they give them. They <a href=\"?p=164\"><span style=\"color: #ffd700;\">need to release them from their minds and hearts along with the energy locked in their nervous system<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><a href=\"?p=690\"><span style=\"color: #ffd700;\"><span style=\"2px;\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">read more &#8230;<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Oscillating between expansion and contraction Oscillating between the extreme polarities of &#8216;desire and resist&#8217; generates the rhythm essential for the transformation of trauma. In surrendering to our own needs to feel safe we apparently need to go to the threshold of death\u2019s door. Organisms have evolved wave-like processes to cure the effects of trauma: the&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1697,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_post_transparent":"default","_kad_post_title":"default","_kad_post_layout":"default","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"default","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"default","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"_kad_post_classname":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-689","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/aboutyou.name\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/689","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/aboutyou.name\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/aboutyou.name\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aboutyou.name\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aboutyou.name\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=689"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/aboutyou.name\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/689\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9080,"href":"https:\/\/aboutyou.name\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/689\/revisions\/9080"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aboutyou.name\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1697"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/aboutyou.name\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=689"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aboutyou.name\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=689"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aboutyou.name\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=689"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}